Life has really gotten busy for me but I wanted to take the time to highlight this book. This isn’t a book I would typically review but with a new year I thought someone might be looking for a new perspective on life…
I was lucky and was able to ask the Darin about his book, this is what he said:
I’ve always been interested in “success” and in particular, whether there is a science to it. I mean, why is one person more successful than another? Is it education, native intelligence, wealthy parents, luck … what’s the determining factor? After decades of study, learning, discussion, and application, I felt like I cracked the code. And much to my amazement, it wasn’t any of the factors previously mentioned. It was actually a simple formula. But as I point out in the book, just because something is “simple” doesn’t make it “easy.” Anyway, once I figured out what had eluded me for so long, I was anxious to explain it to anyone who was interested. So I decided that the best way to reach as many people as possible was to write a book. And doing that very thing (sitting down to write a book) was an example of the main emphasis of the book itself: Never let fear or inexperience stop you from pursuing your dreams.
I had never written anything like this before but just accepted and believed that I could. So I sat down and wrote page 1 … and then page 2 … and so on. And that’s something I tell aspiring writers. The very best thing you can do is come up with your idea, and then sit down and write page 1.
Don’t Give In To Fear.
It doesn’t matter that you’ve never written before, and it doesn’t matter that you don’t know how to write a book. The more you give into that the further you will be from writing The End. When you actually sit down to do it, you’ll find that it’s easier than you thought and all your worries will dissipate. And once you’ve finished, be relentless in pursuit of getting it published.
Dr. Seuss was turned down by 40 publishers, and Chicken Soup for the Soul was turned down by 45. Just persevere. Steve Jobs once said that the main difference between successful and unsuccessful entrepreneurs is perseverance.
“No” is not a Stop Sign … It’s a Yield Sign. Look both ways, and then keep going.
What message or lasting thoughts do you want the reader to take away from your book?
Of all the wonderful, positive feedback I’ve received, my favorites are: 1.) It all just made sense to me for the first time in my life. I understood it like I never did before, and 2.) It gave me real hope that I could live a life of my choosing instead of one that just happened. I couldn’t ask for a better takeaway from readers. That’s exactly what I wanted people to feel … and then apply.
What book had the biggest impact on you?
The book that had the biggest impact on me was written 90 years ago by Napoleon Hill, called Think and Grow Rich. It really is a remarkable book, but it’s dated. It’s actually difficult to read and understand the first time through. That book requires patience, dedication and a lot of introspection. I’m not running it down; I loved it. But my idea was to write a how to succeed book more simply and in a way that would be more fit for our time.
Published: April 24, 2017
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There are some lessons that can only come with age and experience; lessons that make us look back and say, “If I only knew then, what I know now.”
And while they’re essential to providing answers about ourselves, how we approach life, and even our professional aspirations, there’s no doubt we wish we’d had those answers long before we got to that point in our lives.
In Everything I Never Learned in School: A Guide to Success , author Darin Colucci aims to help new college graduates, aspiring entrepreneurs, and those with an immense desire to be successful, navigate life’s stumbling blocks by sharing a few insights on how to reach your goals and keep happiness along for the ride.
A straightforward, practical guide for every high school and college student in America, Everything I Never Learned in School: A Guide to Success is made for the relentless spirit within each of us who yearn to get the most out of life.
Filled with easily understood rules for success, humorous and poignant stories, and life lessons, this book demystifies and breaks down success in a way that anyone can understand, including:
Building a Strong Financial Future Scaling the Corporate (or Career) Ladder Finding Confidence and Letting Go of Insecurities Achieving Goals that Matter to You How Success and Happiness Should Always Be Intertwined And So Much MoreWinner of a 2017 Eric Hoffer Award in the category of Self-Help and Semi-finalist for Book of the Year for the Online Book Club, this is a rare, candid look what life can offer us if we only have a few answers before we get there.
If you’re ready to learn how to be successful, and want to live life to its very fullest, get a copy of Everything I Never Learned in School: A Guide to Success today. You’ll be happy that you had the right answers to help you through the obstacles ahead.
Passage From the Book:
“Your mind is a powerful tool. Your mind can convince you that you are capable of great feats and that the arrival of success is nothing more than a matter of time – or it can convince you that success will never happen for you no matter how hard you try because in your hear of hearts you believe that success is something that other people attain. In either instance you are correct. Success is a choice we make.”
For the past 23 years, Darin Colucci has been a successful trial attorney in Massachusetts, often representing plaintiffs in high-profile personal injury cases. In recognition of his work in this field Newsweek.com recently named him one of the ten best personal injury attorneys in America. He is one of the founding partners of Colucci, Colucci, Marcus, & Flavin and makes his home in Duxbury, MA, where he lives with his wife, Lorna and his son, Jackson. He is a graduate of Bucknell University and Suffolk University Law School where he was a staff member and comment editor of the law review. He has been a commentator on WBZ radio in Boston and, along with his firm, has been recognized numerous times by the publication Super Lawyers.
Darin has also written several works of fiction, been a successful investor, an entrepreneur, and inventor who recently designed a safety mechanism to stop wandering in daycare centers and Alzheimer units. In addition, he spent 12 years as a college football coach. During that time, he gave dozens of speeches to young adults on such subjects as success, integrity, mind-set, and the importance of attitude.